Understanding Paths

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In Chinese, the verb 'to know' as in 'understand and be aware of' is made up of two characters, 'know' 知 and 'way' 道.* So in Chinese, understanding is not just knowing, it's knowing the way, or path, to take. I think this is a really beautiful sentiment, as well as a very wise one. I like the idea that a part of understanding is taking action. Understanding motivates action, and hopefully, the right action for you. 


I'm trying to understand my 'calling' in life, my relationships, and my professional and personal goals. Maybe I don't need to be so hard on myself, that I don't understand it all easily. I'm still moving forward, which shows some level of understanding. Thanks, China, for this lesson.


*道 is also the character for Taoism, or 'The Way'

Comments

Ingrid said…
Wow that was really insightful. Good luck with your journey. Thanks for letting us share your path so far through the blog.
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Technodoll said…
I second that.

Sometimes, reading you, I feel like such a small new leaf, looking for your light :)
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Scarlet said…
The trick is to keep moving while we learn and gain wisdom. Sounds like you're doing just that, Chica! Sounds like China has been a blessing for you.
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Its Just Me - Daring to Dream said…
I am right there with you girl. Our paths seem to be crossing, even if only seeking out which path to take.
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Cristina HW said…
Right on girl! I love this post. You are wonderful! xoxo-cristina
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
The Rambling Taoist said…
While coming to understand your path is very important, in Taoist thought, it should spur you to practice wu wei, that is "action by non-action" or "doing without doing".
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
Stephanie said…
OH the goal is always not to be so hard on ourselves! We really are our own worst critics:)
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
Kirsten Brockner said…
Love this! you have great wisdom..
Friday, October 02, 2009
yrautca said…
Totally agree with the action part. You need to have good intentions and good preparation. Then take action, a risk or two.
Monday, October 05, 2009
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